5 Jecke in Kölle

Last weekend was carneval, or as they say in Cologne: Fasteleer. We were there, as every year, and it was fun, as every year. But it wasn’t as busy as other years: maybe because of the time of year, too soon after Christmas, or maybe because so many people have the flu.
Our little bunch was one short: Henk was ill in bed, in Amsterdam, with a bad flu. While we (Frits, Niels, Thomas, Jan en Timon) were in Cologne, with a spare costume…
After a lot of phoning and asking around, we found Mario who didn’t mind helping us out. The problem was that we needed to be six, as we had costumes in the six colours of the rainbow: red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple. And Mario had to ‘fill in’ the yellow costume.
And even though we got a lot of compliments, we didn’t win any prizes – but then we’re used to that.
The costume ball of the Rosa Funken was as busy as ever, but a large part were ‘curious’ rather than ‘gay’: people who had heard that the Rosa Funken Ball was always such fun, and who had come to see what is was about. What they didn’t get, was that the idea is to come in an inventive, and possibly outreagous, costume. Something off-the-peg from the Kaufhof or Karstadt simply doesn’t cut it for this crowd. So we were not too impressed with the costumes.
But there were some good costumes: Josephine and GeraldineDaphne were great, we loved Audrey Hepburn: but they (like us) were not appropriate to the theme, which was ‘Pirates of the Seven Seas’, and so did not get to the stage, let alone a prize.
I’m just hoping that next year it’ll be more of a ‘Gay Ball’.
Rainbow Flamenca
See more pictures here: carneval 2005

Spending spree

Last night there was a telethon on Dutch TV to raise money for the relief of victims of the tsunami-disaster in Asia. There is a central account where the major aid organisations collect their funds, and the total stood at € 67 million at the beginning of the evening, and by midnight the total was € 112 million. It’s amazing to see how this disaster has captured all the attention, while there are still other, huge disasters are crying out for money too…
In a way I am pleased that we managed to donate so much money in this country (it works out to about € 6.50 per dutchman, woman and child) – we are so much better off in this part of the world – but I am a little weary of the people and organisations that are giving money on the keeping-up-with-the-joneses principle. But it’s all in a good cause, they say.

Christmas 2004

(Pink) Christmas bells...After celebrating Christmas Day with the relatives (my mother, Jan’s mother, Jan’s brother and sister with their respective children), we celebrated our ‘family’ Christmas on Dec. 26 (what we Dutch refer to as ‘second Christmas Day) with 22 friends. So there were 24 of us in all for dinner. Each course (there were seven) was prepared, served, cleared and the dishes done by one group: that way everybody did their share, without burdening anyone with the complete dinner.
It was fun, as always, but a few people had to work again the next day. So it was not as exuberant as last year’s ‘Scottish’ Christmas.

Jan’s birthday

The birthdayboys
Today Jan celebrates his 44th birthday. The party was last night, and it continued until 3:30 am. Because it was Henk’s birthday two weeks ago, and we were all in Cologne for bear-weekend, the party was also for him. Together they had invited about 30 people, and most came. It was a great evening, just talking and having fun.
Jan got a lot of presents, and donations for a new sewing machine (you need the right tools for the job, after all). Henk also received quite a lot of presents, so they were well pleased.

Today we are a bit tired and the worse for wear. We had some other friends over fot coffee this morning, but other than that it was nice and quiet today. This evening we’re going to the Shako for what will be the last meeting of the Netherbears, as the Shako will close on January 1st. So the Netherbears will have to start looking for another place to have a regular bear-afternoon.

Sinterklaas

Last Saturday we celebrated Sinterklaas, otherwise kown as the birthday of St. Nicholas. The official day is December 6th, but it is tradtionally celebrated on December 5th, the eve of St.Nicholas. But as December 5th was a Sunday this year, we celebrated on Saturday.

Anyway, St. Nicholas is the patron saint of children (and sailors), and on the eve of his birthday we exchange gifts. Legend has it that he lives in Madrid, Spain and that he travels to Holland on his steamship ‘Spain’, together with his helpers, all Black Peters. Very politically incorrect, and very probably historically inaccurate.

We celebrate this occasion by eating chocolate (mostly in the shape of chocolate letters: everyone gets the initial of his first name in chocolate) and pepernoten (small spice biscuits).

Gifts are usually not very expensive, and are accompanied by a poem – supposedly written by St. Nicholas – which more often than not takes the mickey of the recipient.

The standard of writing this year was much improved over last year – I think a bit of competition is creeping in. Before anyone could unwrap their present, they first had to read the accompanying poem out loud. But before anybody got to have their present, we all had to play charades, and you couldn’t open your present until you had won a round.

A lot of fun was had by everybody. Oh, and everybody was: Simon (the host for the evening), Henk, Cees, Niels, Steven and Ronald, Theo and Rene, Jan and Timon, Jan and Rob, Frits and Hank.

It was the first of many celebrations this month.

A busy weekend

This weekend was filled with preparations for carneval in Cologne, which will take place in the beginning of february next year. As time seems to go by so quickly these days, we wanted to make sure that our costumes were ready in time. So this weekend was devoted to the costume-making. I’m not going to post any pictures, because we want it to be a surprise (for most people, anyway – regular visitors have already seen our outfits) for the event itself. You can read more about the Kostümball here: Rosa Funken

Something to think about…

A reflection by Eric Meyer (css-wizard) on the recent elections in the USA:
whatever happened to “life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness” ?

Oh, and read an updated version here: meyerweb.com. Eric makes the points for gay marriage quite eloquently. I’m just happy we live in the Netherlands, where we’ve at least jumped that particular hurdle (marriage is open to same-sex couples here – I know: we are one).

Wilkommen, bienvenue, welcome!

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